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Coming full circle…

A photo taken with Nanna Francesca at my first big Italian wedding in the 1970s. (The reception venue of the day complete with champagne glass tower, doves, smoke machine and parquetry dance floor to slide across later on!)

I have to laugh seeing Nanna Francesca and me dressed uncannily unlike here. 👀 By the time I was in my teenage years, this would’ve driven me crazy! 😄 In a way I had to come full circle over the years in my relationship with Nanna Francesca. From the comfort of her tucking me in bed (very tight!) when I stayed over and the joy of her taking me to the ‘pictures’ (where she talked loud!) – to when I was a teen fighting against her traditional, often restrictive, ways (and strong advice!) – to later, when I’d grown up, truly appreciating her.

Only then did I fully realise how tough life had been on her at times – the early griefs, sacrifices and stoic endurance that made her who she was. She gave me a love of cooking, her mother’s embroidered linens and many items for my ‘Glory box’. She also gave me true unconditional love and that is so precious to receive, for it stays with you.

Happy Mother’s day to all the mums and tight hugs to those missing their mums, grandmothers and mother figures no longer with us but whose part in our lives keeps on giving richness and love in all that they gave. Much love! Zoë x

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Four generations of hand-sewn linens…

I never expected to end up with a collection of linens that span four generations of women on both sides of my family. Especially since, as a teenager, I’d hope for the latest record for my birthday only to be disappointed when Nanna Francesca gave me tablecloths ‘for my Glory box’. Again. For years these sat unused along with the tea towels, doilies and other items I also had no interest in then.

Now I find myself with a chest of drawers filled with linens from Italy, England, Ireland and Australia that I treasure, many made by hand by my grandmothers and bisnonni. There’s a lovely sense of connection in gently holding the fabrics and lace they held… each created and once warmed by their hands. Carefully hand-laundered at the village fountain or the backyard washtub. Placed on tables, or wedding beds, or hidden away for ‘good’.

The designs reflect different cultures, or eras. Great-grandma Charlotte’s crocheted doily for the bread basket is more than a hundred years old. By the mid-20th century, Grandma Lorna, created her more modern take, using green and yellow for a doily. Bisnonna Francesca Carozza’s monogrammed bed linens (CF centre) are also from a century ago, in Calabria, when such items were among the few a woman had to her own name.

The style of embroidery, stitches and cutwork can identify the maker. So too the tiny ‘sewer’s mark’ (see the tablecloth edge pictured next to the initialled linen). Neat, little knots on the back of a piece (pictured) are a sign of hand sewing.

I’ve learnt that they used linen, cotton, flax or hemp, sometimes grown and spun themselves. Cotton warms beneath your hand. Linen stays cool. Hemp retains texture and an earthy scent even after the material is scrubbed with scoria stones in the river then dried in the sun, as were the sheets Granny Maddalena brought to Australia from Abruzzo. A trick to whiten linen is to place it under the moonlight. This is still done today.

In many cultures, linens are passed down from generation to generation and interestingly, with age, most of the natural fabrics become softer yet stronger. I mentioned in Mezza Italiana that those tablecloths Nanna Francesca gave me for birthdays during the 1980s, I’d finally started to use. They’re mostly modest, checked cottons and I can say that now, years later, I truly appreciate them and there’s always one on the kitchen table. Softened with age, perhaps a little faded, but still sturdy and enduring. 💜 Zoë xx

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from Italia to Australia…

glory-box-calabriaAnother piece from my Italian great-grandmother, Bisnonna Francesca’s glory box… (Cesca in my books). This hand-embroidered pillow sham from 1920s Calabria travelled in the hull of a ship across the world to a new life in Australia and remained tucked away for many decades… a keepsake of another place and life that might have been.

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From the glory box of my bisnonna…

Francesca Carrozza initials

The initials of my great-grandmother, bisnonna Francesca Carrozza, hand-stitched onto this linen pillow cover in 1920s Calabria for her glory box that was to end up in 1930s Australia. I didn’t fully appreciate these linens when I was young but they have since become precious to me.

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